On Saturday, 3rd November 2007, just over 10 of us in The 5E Network, with a few accompanied by little ones, took time out to do something we've not done since school days, something still currently associated with school kids rather than grown-ups or middle-aged adults.
Canvassing for donations from the public in the streets for a charity. In this case, Life Community Services Society of 681, Hougang Avenue 8, a charity which runs a mentoring or befrienders programme for some 100 children of prisoners and a bursary for needy students.
Doing this Flag Day with Life Community Services is the first official act in our earlier decision by our network to adopt the charity. We are not helping out on a once-off hit-and-run basis. A charity often needs not only money but also manpower to run their programmes (in this case, trained volunteer befrienders) and brainpower (e.g. setting aside time to think up new ideas to raise funds or meaningful activities for those under care).
Incidentally, the charity was especially interested in adult canvassers like ourselves, believing that adults tend to do better and collect fuller donation pouches than school children. (And yes, it is pouches nowadays, no more the clanging tin cans.)
The one dozen of us had a good time, from 11am to 3pm, trying to fill up our pouches and finish giving away the donor's stickers. My partner Amy Toh said we should do this again, and put all new business apprentices through such activities periodically.
Why? The exercise, she says, is good training in approaching strangers, speaking up clearly so as to be understood, accepted and get things done, braving rejections and trying again and again, and disciplining ourselves to finish a job, whether or not we feel up to it or tired in the legs.
I found myself, with my gamely 6-year-old boy, standing by a pedestrian walkway, calling out to almost everyone passing by: "Hello! Help us help some children. Children of prisoners. Any little donation will be nice ... Thank you". Jia Wei would simply stick out his hands with the collection pouch hanging from his fingers. On a few occasions, when I get curious glances, I'd feel it necessary to say: "This ... is my son. He's helping me help those children." It's my way of clarifying, "No, he is no child of a prisoner and I am no ex-convict!" ;)
Having executed this first act of helping out with Life Community's Flag Day, we'd be exploring with the charity what else we can do and how else we can help.
The thinking behind our adopting the charity is that people-centred and people-oriented business groups such as ours ought to be big (as in big hearted) enough to set aside time and energy, if not money, for worthy social causes.
We can come together to build our business for personal profit; we can also come together from time to time to help others, people who are helpless, without profit.
That, we think, is a mark of success, a sign of one having arrived, and a characteristic of people of substance.
To all my partners who took time out to be involved in this little project, congratulations on your good show and thank you for the fun.
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